Make the meals, do the washing . If the new significant other starts feeling more like a consolation prize than a romantic partner, it's time for a heart-to-heart. His son has been in charge since he was a tiny boy. Being openingly unsupportive though is not okay. Or not? How much do you know about dating after 50? Good Luck, Sonia. One time i had to ask him to put away stuff, if he wants me to come around once in awhile.to give me spacehe did remove his wifes clothes and empty a drawer for mebut their house which she designed.is filled with her memories, the car even has a picture of her before she passed. I tried but simply couldnt be a friend. If he wasnt widowed, would you be this understanding? And when you both sit down to talk, be honest about your hopes and your fears. its one day at a time and one step at a time but we both know our journey is on the same path. Falling in love with you will bring her survivor's guilt to the surface. People who are happy are true to themselves and dont offer up their lives as sacrifice or hostage in hopes of some distance reward. I think that if the widowed wants a real partner and and has found new love that they must make a conscious decision to make a fresh start and not have too many reminders to keep them from moving forward. I wish I could encourage him to sell the house to her. When the heart hurts it hurts!! He says that despite all these ugly things she had done to him he felt happy with her and still loves her. And sometimes they mature out of it once others stop feeding their games with reactions. Am I being too sensitive? So much truth in this. Im still trying to process the request. he went off and scattered them. I hope things get better for you soon. And dont discount the fact that your boys (young men actually) are not supporting you as part of the way you feel. This is a conversation everyday So I say I dont want to talk about this anymore I want to live our lives. Are you okay with things turning out not the way you hope? Beware, beware to all who hear me. You might want to give it a read too.
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